Because I have a tiger mother in my family, I have been taught the "inhumane" education method since I was a child that "beating hurts, scolding means love". Every two or three days, I will always have the opportunity to suffer the feeling of having my skin and flesh bruised. Generally speaking, it is a Spend your childhood with tears and a handful of snot, and grow up as a human being. (Sad and tearful) Despite this, the relationship between the editor and mommy is still very good. It should be that mommy also instilled the concept of "I am actually a child enveloped in happiness." (Eh~
Due to the years of physical torture, the editor has determined early in the future to be an educator who uses "love education" (this love is not the others love okay~), treats children as friends, and does not practice corporal punishment, but teaches alone. Guanghui Education, this is of course because parents who spank their children are often prosecuted now, and beating and scolding their children is really tiring, don’t you think~
Hey, hey, hey! That’s not the case. Of course, it’s because I think it’s more appropriate to listen to the child’s difficulties and inner thoughts than to resort to self-righteous corporal punishment without asking the reason. In this way, the relationship between parents and children will be more harmonious.
Photographer Anna Radchenko created a photographic work called "Reverse Side of a Mothers Love" (translation: the other side of mothers love). The relationship between mother and child presented in it exudes a strange and disturbing atmosphere. uncomfortable. In fact, what Anna wants to express is the typical problems that exist in the parent-child relationship, including parents' unrealistic expectations of their children, excessive strictness, total control, and over-protection.
Just stay by my side obediently and be a little nun who is always pure and will not resist me.
Let your mother protect you from the dangers of the outside world. No one can hurt my darling, no one.
Go and study ballet seriously! I have placed all my unachievable ideals and wishes on you, do you understand?
No one loves you more than me, please never leave me, okay?
You cannot accommodate other people in your eyes. You only have my existence in your eyes, and I make the decision in everything.
I told him to turn left, but he didn’t dare to turn right; I told him to sit, but he couldn’t kneel.
Did you know? You will always be my child who never grows up.
It was just a temporary mistake to give birth to them, let them fend for themselves.
This is what you get for disobeying my orders.
Excessive or too little maternal love is really morbid~~~I suddenly felt that the tiger mother in the family loves her mouth too much~! Share this furry maternal love so that everyone can be wary of it!
