For myself, I have always had an unconscious habit. For example, in the spring season, I will definitely read "A Dream of Red Mansions" again. For example, when I encounter freshly designed fabrics for sale, I will follow my heart unconsciously. Choose a few items to take back, clean the room, sit down by the window, and slowly cut and sew. When you are tired, turn a few pages of the book, get up and take a few steps, or play with your husband for a while, and then continue. With my own efforts to adjust my life, my life has gradually become regular and fulfilling. I still think about being with my husband every moment, but I have learned to tell myself as a conditioned reflex that a proper sense of distance can make the relationship closer and more intimate. bouncy.